Along Route 66, south of Vinita, Oklahoma, a sign caught my eye and I turned in a little cemetery, bordered with a new white fence along the highway.

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Driving part way down the worn grass drive, I stopped to survey the site, bordered on three sides by Oklahoma fields.

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A trickle of a creek ran through it and there was a bridge although you could walk over it on the drive. Back in the corner were a couple of fenced sites.

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Coming in, I passed the larger monuments in preferential spots and headed for the smaller graves at the back. Walking on icy grass with bitter cold, I tried to get a feel for this resting place. Birth dates went back into the 1800s, some of our state’s first settlers.

The lamb graced the grave of a child.

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Benson Pack died a young man, his life counted in years, months and days…

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This caught my eye. A child’s grave obviously.

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When I walked around to the front, I was deeply touched that a child who lived only two days was so missed almost twenty-eight years later.

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Maybe there is a record of who lies here, over by the fence, under the worn monument.

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There’s a quiet dignity and sweetness in this homemade marker.

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The cold wet weather drove me back to my car and back to the highway. I’m all for cremation for many reasons, but I appreciate the people whose stories I will imagine from the worn tombstones by Route 66. Peace.